Dealing with difficult people T___T

It is a basic fact of life that, you cannot get along with everyone

I rarely talk about people. Ah this time is an exception. Thinking of some space to express my feelings out, so here I am. Recently, made friends with someone (s) who are a big show off.. Dengggg stress!

Most of the time, their conversation centered around their knowledge about fashion are the best.. Well, they only wear high standard clothes. (At least, that 's what I heard from them), how big amount of money they spend only for shopping, and even how terror they were inspite of they not having good exam result.. If I want to pick up a fight, of course I can argue with them but there 's no point.. There 's nothing that I can get.. Even, not talking to them is not an option. As much as I would like to run away, I 'll often need to work with them.

Basically, whatever conversation I pick up with them, the conversation always steers away to how cool they are.. And me ? -Have nothing to share. huhu

Sincerity is a mystery between God and a servant.

Saat dilanda ujian, kita teriak kecewa

Tatkala dihimpit cubaan, kita meratap kesedihan

Apabila hati kita dibina dengan benteng kesabaran, dikelilingi senjata redha, dan sistem pertahanan berupa doa yang tak putus-putus, nescaya ia sukar untuk diroboh. Saat itu, Allah SWT pasti akan menurunkan pertolonganNya yang berupa kekuatan menyinari dalamannya dan memberikan ganjaran berlipat kali ganda atas kesabaran yang menghiasi diri hambaNya. -www.faridrashidi.com.

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Hai hao! It has been a while kan. Aaah.. feels good to return back writing, a nice place where I can confess all my feelings. A bit rusty -___-" (This entry had been in the draft for quite some time. Not having enough strength to post it before this, for some cannot- be- avoid reasons. huhu).

Can't deny, failure is painful

Everyone hates it. It 's very negative and to me it sounds quite final. Well, have no experience in this kind of situation (Yes, this is the biggest problem, I have never suffered in such life events), of course I may think it 'll kill me.. and it may feel like it almost will.. just after it happened. But, trust me actually it won’t. Instead it makes us stronger. In the end of the process, we know that this is life cycle.. All we need is redha, dan ikhlas juga. :)

All in all, yes it is good to be back again!

#Salam Syawal

We encounter thousands of people, who have the ability to change our perspective of life

Well, I never got to understand the complete story of my Tok Ayah, the hardships that he faced during his young-hood, in the mean time trying to raise a large family. However, I remember a nice man that loved to laugh.. Tok Ayah.. :) Being as one of the closest person to him, make me realized that though he was gone physically, he would never spiritually gone. Still remain in my heart, and the past memories of him would always stay with us. -Even though nobody lives forever, their legacy will always remain. Al- Fatihah

The last picture, eid- ul adha 1431 H

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Kita semua hebat kerana hati terpanggil untuk menghulurkan sesuatu buat insan yang kita sayang

Hai orang-orang yang beriman, janganlah kamu menghilangkan pahala sedekahmu dengan menyebut-nyebutnya dan menyakiti (perasaan si penerima), seperti orang yang menafkahkan hartanya kerana riya' kepada manusia, dan dia tidak beriman kepada Allah dan hari Kemudian. Maka perumpamaan orang itu seperti batu licin yang di atasnya ada tanah, kemudian batu itu ditimpa hujan lebat, lalu jadilah dia bersih (tidak bertanah). Mereka tidak menguasai sesuatu pun dari apa yang mereka usahakan, dan Allah tidak memberi petunjuk kepada orang-orang yang kafir. (Al- Baqarah, 262-264) #Subhanallah

Losing effective-ness

How many times were you at home, bored out of your mind, and at the same time feeling sleepy?

Sleepiness is on many occasions associated with boredom. And this is why people lose effectiveness. No matter how fun something is, do it long enough and you’ll get bored. The best way to avoid it is to break the routine. -Copied this from one website on the internet, so truuueee! When was the last time you tried something new ?

It has been a while, yes seriously. As long as I can remember, I do not like to try new food (prefer to eat what I already know I like) -Admit, I found myself happy doing all the same things day after day, but out of a sudden, I realised, sampai bila ? Hihi. No matter how fun something is, do it long enough and you 'll get bored. Can't deny, can't deny anymore.

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Well, actually I am not afraid to try something new. In fact, I 'm often eager. I just tried baking, cooking something easy, even sewing and doing crochet (These two parts, are the most difficult. Half way- doing. Haha). Of course, trying new things require a lot of courage (I am not into all these things before. huhu). The spirit to try new things is synonymous to the spirit of self- improvement. -Dr. Lickerman. So so, what are you waiting for ? Let's live the life to the fullest everyone. Have fun! :)

Stick with your gut feelings

Bulan Ramadhan, bulan yang didalamnya diturunkan Al-Qur'an sebagai petunjuk bagi manusia dan penjelasan-penjelasan mengenai petunjuk itu dan pembeda (antara yang haq dengan yang bathil ), karena itu barangsiapa diantara kamu menyaksikan (masuknya bulan ini ), maka hendaklah ia puasa... -Al-Baqarah : 185

You may live to meet other people’s expectations without ever finding what matters to you. At the end, you just live someone else’s life without ever living yours. (Scary)

Follow your heart, listen to your inner voice. This is what he always told me. Ya, have thought about all these things that happened, and of course, I don’t want to be the person that walks away and regrets it for the rest of my life. Maybe this is not the best thing that I should do, but I think this is the right thing to be done right now. Need to clear off the original plan from the mind. And yes! I 'm ready to open it for the new possibilities. May all our duas be accepted, Happy Ramadhan kareem everyone ! :)

Fulfilling the life.

Gratitude is the best attitude -unknown

So, July 'll be ended, soon. Alhamdulillah, the should- do - things on the list have been done. I finished my Mandarin course and passed the basic test. Also done with the black belt grading and surprisingly managed to break all the blocks! The most important, khatam al Quran untuk yang ke berapa kali nya. Ya, sungguh ini yang paling susah. Cubaannya melampau. Alahai dugaan dugaan.

Do you struggle with being able to follow your heart and instincts?

Well, I have no words to really talk about this. But, er okay just imagine the situation. There is something you have always wanted to do and out of a sudden, you are given a chance to do that thing (It is not your first choice, actually). Now, you are stuck. You don’t know if you should go for it or not. What should you do ? -'ll catch y' all later, till then t care

Wal- Asr, demi masa

Demi masa! Sesungguhnya manusia dalam kerugian, kecuali orang-orang yang percaya, dan membuat kerja-kerja kebaikan, dan saling berwasiat pada yang benar, dan saling berwasiat untuk bersabar. (103:1-3)

Already 12 30 in the mid night and I have yet to sleep, wow! (Selalu tak sempat pukul dua belas dah pengsan. Hihi). Well, it has been a while since the last entry. Being busy with daily routines and yes, blame the lazy me!

Regarding about the previous entry, the last entry in March I think.. I did mention that I have prepared something, just like a check list, that may be I can do (suppose to be, should do) this holiday. Time flies, huh. Insya Allah Insya Allah, everything will be done in this month. I hope so, since the dateline is before August, or to be appropriate before fasting month. I am trying very hard now since this first week of July has been wasted because of some could-not-avoided reasons. Doa- doakan lah, mudahan selesai semuanya.

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I am not very good at this politic thingy. And I hardly write about all these eww eww but I think this topic had gone out of hand, seriously. Hoping that all these problems will resolve as soon as possible. Reading so many senseless and unlogical reports, haiyyaahh! Communism ? No way! Till then, have a nice day ahead everyone :)